{"id":261396,"date":"2026-07-13T18:19:52","date_gmt":"2026-07-13T15:19:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/1kitap1.com\/en\/getting-over-your-parents-the-school-of-life\/"},"modified":"2026-07-13T18:19:52","modified_gmt":"2026-07-13T15:19:52","slug":"getting-over-your-parents-the-school-of-life","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1kitap1.com\/en\/getting-over-your-parents-the-school-of-life\/","title":{"rendered":"Getting Over Your Parents – The School Of Life"},"content":{"rendered":"
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There are no nuances and no gradual steps, only precipitous drops, sudden illuminations and daunting fault lines. The unloved mind hasn\u2019t been granted the security to grow gently; it hasn\u2019t acquired nuance. It can\u2019t pause and assess what is in front of it. It careers headlong into conclusions. Things are moving far too fast inside. This mind has been put in charge of an adult life while equipped with the reflexes of a frightened 7- month-old.<\/p>\n

The absence of an adolescence Adolescents are known for their rudeness and selfishness. Yet beneath the grumpy surface, many of them are pioneering new ways of living: they refuse to accept everything on trust, they won\u2019t blindly follow along as they did when they were toddlers, they will ask tough questions and push back when they feel they need to. They are on their way to becoming genuine adults. But it\u2019s a privilege to have an adolescence and not everyone who makes it to adulthood is lucky enough to have had one.<\/p>\n

The unloved among us may not have had the background sense of comfort to question those who created us. When a parent is too depressed, furious, indifferent or cocky to care what we think, there is little opportunity to act up \u2013 let alone doubt the rules that we have been brusquely brought up to obey. In these situations, we slither into adulthood without having explored our strengths or examined our values for ourselves. It\u2019s a very lucky child indeed who can \u2013 in their depths \u2013 feel loved enough by their parent to scream at them across the living room: \u2018I never even asked to be born!\u2019<\/p>\n

Shyness Shyness isn\u2019t just one hang-up among others, it is a leading indicator of childhood difficulty. This is because what the shy person is principally scared about as they enter a party, prepare to give a speech or ask someone on a date is a repetition of a scenario that they knew only too well in their early years: that other people will take against them with irrational vehemence and treat them with contempt.<\/p>\n

The shy person isn\u2019t mysteriously apprehensive, they\u2019re scared of another dreadful bout of judgement like the one they knew intimately in the past.<\/p>\n

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Published in 2024 by The School of Life First published in the USA in 2024 Copyright \u00a9 The School of Life 2024 Printed in Latvia by Livonia Print All rights reserved. This book is sold subject to the condition that it shall not be resold, lent, hired out or otherwise circulated without express prior consent of the publisher.<\/p>\n

A proportion of this book has appeared online at www.theschooloflife.com\/articles Every effort has been made to contact the copyright holders of the material reproduced in this book. If any have been inadvertently overlooked, the publisher will be pleased to make restitution at the earliest opportunity. The School of Life publishes a range of books on essential topics in psychological and emotional life, including relationships, parenting, friendship, careers and fulfilment. The aim is always to help us to understand ourselves better \u2013 and thereby to grow calmer, less confused and more purposeful.<\/p>\n

Discover our full range of titles, including books for children, here: www.theschooloflife.com\/books The School of Life also offers a comprehensive therapy service, which complements, and draws upon, our published works: www.theschooloflife.com\/therapy www.theschooloflife.com Cover image: Portrait of a French family with kids in fancy dress, 1920. Leemage \/ Getty Images ISBN 978-1-916753-28-0 10 9 8 7 6 5 4 3 2 1 OceanofPDF.com Getting Over Your Parents OceanofPDF.com Contents I Introduction II Varieties of Difficult Parents III The Symptoms of Difficult Parents IV Exercises to Overcome Difficult Parents V Conclusion OceanofPDF.com I.<\/p>\n

Introduction What is a parent like? Because the word \u2018parent\u2019 is a generic one, when we use it, we frequently give the impression that all parents are, in a sense, roughly the same. There exists a hugely powerful and singular image in the collective mind of what a \u2018mum\u2019 or \u2018dad\u2019 might be like. These job titles may alter over time, but at any given point, they can be counted upon to release a coherent set of associations. A mum will be kind, patient, sometimes a little fussy (in the name of love) and \u2013 broadly \u2013 adoring and adorable.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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