{"id":262353,"date":"2026-07-13T18:59:11","date_gmt":"2026-07-13T15:59:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/1kitap1.com\/en\/helping-your-kids-cope-with-divorce-the-sandcastles-way-m-gary-neuman\/"},"modified":"2026-07-13T18:59:11","modified_gmt":"2026-07-13T15:59:11","slug":"helping-your-kids-cope-with-divorce-the-sandcastles-way-m-gary-neuman","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/1kitap1.com\/en\/helping-your-kids-cope-with-divorce-the-sandcastles-way-m-gary-neuman\/","title":{"rendered":"Helping Your Kids Cope With Divorce The Sandcastles Way – M Gary Neuman"},"content":{"rendered":"
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ever, you want to give \\our child all the love, support, md guidance he or she needs, but everything seems hardei and more complicated Helping )our Kids (.’ope with DrvOTOf the Simdccistlcs Wcvv can help. It is designed to help you view divorce through your child’s eyes, giving you age- specific, practical, in-depth information to help you guide him or her eniotionalh and ptychotOgicall) through this life-transforming experience.<\/p>\n

This book is based on the national]) renowned Sand- castles workshop, which marriage counselor and child development expert Can Neuman created to help kids cope with this difficult time Gar) has helped over thirty thousand children through the SandcastJes program, which is now mandated bj rami}) courts nationwide Here he draws on this wealth of experience to help sou help \\011r child cope with this monumental change. Subjects in< lude: \u2022 I low to build a co-parenting relationship \u2014 e\\en when you think you can't \u2022 What to do when a parent moves twa) \u2022 How to stop fighting with your ex-spouse \u2022 Navigating the emotional turmoil of custoch and visitation \u2022 I lelping your child deal with change \u2022 Coping with kids' common tears about separation \u2022 Introducing significant others \u2022 Helping your child cope with 1 new itepfamif) I his warm, cinpathctic guide is tilled with specific - tions tor helping the whole tannh cope ^-appropriate scripts tor toddlers, preschoolers, six- to eight-year-olds, nine- to twehe-\\ear-olds.<\/p>\n

and thirteen- to sc\\enteeii-\\e.ir- olds. will give you cxacth the right words in order to sa\\ |iist enough but not too much when explaining divorce to \\our child Nearh a hundred pieces of artwork from children of all ages who have gone through the SandcastJes program will help you appreciate how kids perceive divorce and otter insights to help you recogni\/e s\\rnlx>ls in your own child’s work. Dozens of special activities, from drawing and playing with action figures to compiling photo albums and even baking cookies, will help you get closer to your child while inviting him or her to communicate problems that are diffi- cult to express 111 words ( ienerous quotatv Sandcastles children offer a kids’-e\\e view of wh.<\/p>\n<\/blockquote>\n

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