How To Disagree Better – Julia Minson

The mediation team organized a facilitated discussion to understand how the parties really understood the term. When session participants wrote down anonymous definitions of “best available science,” it became clear that the seemingly harmless phrase brought up different and powerful associations for different people. Here are some of the responses that were offered: 1. “Best Available Science = manipulation to meet a desired outcome.”

2. “Why does it matter. There’s no political will to follow best available science.” 3. “MV3 is simply data. It doesn’t have a will or an agenda. The facts are facts. How can you argue with fact??????” 4. “It has to be agreed to by the co-managers.” Having examined the various reactions, Moira asked for more clarification around number 4. “For the person who offered this, or anyone who feels similarly: Do you mean that you feel the tribal co-managers have to agree with the science if it is ever to be used?”

On one hand, this seemed like another goofy question. How could anyone agree or disagree with science? Wasn’t the point of science that it was objective and for everyone? But discussing the question prompted the sharing of several stories about how communication of research findings has failed in the past. Specifically, the tribes found prior briefings overly technical and lacking useful insights. They also felt that the reports from the state contained bias, featuring additional conclusions that were not supported by the data.

A tribal rep spoke up: “This comment with all the question marks…the one about arguing with facts. What do you have to say about the fact that personal beliefs and information that’s not supported by the MV3 report winds up in your damn policies? How is that ‘best available science’?”

Not surprisingly, that comment led to a lot of back-and-forth, until Moira asked another innocent-seeming question: “I wonder if the state could talk a little bit about the decision-making and communications that accompany the data when it is given over to the tribes?” As the state representatives went about explaining their process for turning raw data into reports and policies, one of them voiced a realization: “We are conflating science with data. MV3 is just data. Science is a process of inquiry; of synthesizing and analyzing data—that’s science.

That process could improve, and it could be more clear, inclusive, and transparent.” Another state rep added: “The data will never be perfect, and we’ll always be revisiting what we know, but we need to act on something in the meantime.”

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prhid_prh_7.4_155573760_c0_r0 OceanofPDF.com Contents Dedication Introduction: Why Do We Need a Book About Disagreement? 1 Disagreement, Conflict, and What’s Wrong with Everyone Around You 2 Discovering the Receptive Mindset 3 It’s Not the Thought That Counts 4 The Awesome Power of Signaling Learning Goals 5 Asking the Right Questions 6 Listening with Your Words 7 The H.E.A.R.

Framework—Showing Receptiveness While Making Your Point 8 What’s Your Story? 9 The Courage to Speak with Receptiveness 10 Building Your Receptiveness Muscle 11 Building Receptive Relationships, Teams, and Communities Conclusion Acknowledgments Notes Index About the Author OceanofPDF.com To anyone who has ever disagreed with me. Thank you. OceanofPDF.com Introduction WHY DO WE NEED A BOOK ABOUT DISAGREEMENT?

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