Healthy Boundaries – Chase Hill

They will continue to manipulate you and use your emotions to get what they want. To break the cycle of control, you first have to be in the right place: a good place. You need to be aware of your emotions, and know how to manage them in all types of situations. You might not be as confident or as strong as you want to be just yet, but you know you’re going in the right direction. Whatever your parents throw in your direction, you need to be able to handle it.

This is critical because as soon as you react, whether that is floods of tears or anger, you’re putting yourself back into the cycle of control. Don’t be surprised if this causes parents to push further or up their game. It’s going to be a shock for them not to experience the same reaction as normal.

You might hear hurtful insults, like, “You’re selfish,” or “You’re ungrateful.” They could try to regain control by reminding you that they’re the parent, and you’re “just” the child. They may even kick you out. The harsh lesson of “realizing how lucky you were to have parents that cared for you” might come up, which is another reason why you have to be prepared for any outcome. The truth is, they are only creating this space in the hope that you will return to your placid people-pleasing self.

Keep telling yourself that you aren’t a child anymore, and that you are an independent human being who deserves respect from everyone, including your parents. If it gets to a point where you can’t cope with your parents’ reaction, you must walk away. You aren’t abandoning them or running away from your problems. You’re protecting yourself. You may have to go for a walk, or you may have to stay with a friend for a while. It could take a couple of weeks.

Have faith in your own instincts because you will know when the time is right. Phrases that will help you to break the control cycle include: ● I won’t allow you to use guilt to control me. ● My feelings are as equally important as yours.

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By reading this document, the reader agrees that under no circumstances is the author responsible for any losses, direct or indirect, which are incurred as a result of the use of information contained within this document, including, but not limited to, — errors, omissions, or inaccuracies. OceanofPDF.com CONTENTS Your Free Say No Checklist Introduction Chapter 1: Before We Start: What You Should Know About Healthy Boundaries Chapter 2: Testing Yourself: Do You Really Need to Set Boundaries? Chapter 3: 7 Deep Questions to Help You Discover Yourself and Create Boundaries Chapter 4: Power Within: How to Stop Feeling Guilty, Overcome Fear, and Find Energy Chapter 5: Powerful but Kind Words for Expressing Your Boundaries to People Chapter 6: How to Discuss Your Boundaries With Family Chapter 7: 10 Graceful Tactics to Set Boundaries With Parents Chapter 8: Boundaries With Your Partner Chapter 9: Genuine Ways to Set Boundaries and Save Friendships Chapter 10: Boundaries in the Workplace for a More Positive Environment Chapter 11: Dealing With Difficult People: How to Maintain Your Boundaries When Someone Violates Them Chapter 12: Emotional Detox: How to Release Toxicity and Recover From a Boundaries Conflict Chapter 13: Life After Boundaries: How to Keep Love in Your Relationships With People Tying It All Together Resources OceanofPDF.com YOUR FREE SAY NO CHECKLIST DON’T LET THE PEOPLE PLEASING TRAP YOU AGAIN…

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