How To TRY AGAIN – STEVE KAMB

We don’t see the loneliness, the lack of deep community connections, or the eventual challenges their kids could face because Mom and Dad plastered their personal lives all over social media before they had a chance to consent. We see the super-shredded celebrity telling us how they got fit for a film in six months. We don’t see the two trainers, the dietitian, the private chef, the nanny taking care of their child, or the millions of dollars at stake dependent on them looking superficially healthy.18 By the way, there’s nothing wrong with these people doing these things: They are doing so for their own reasons, with their own motivations.

Everybody gets to live their own life. Many of these people are actually happy, while many of them are secretly miserable. The truth is that we can never truly know. But problems arise when we take our life, our motivations, and our expectations, and compare them to others who are playing with a different scorecard.

We humans are social creatures. We love learning how to be successful or happy or healthy by copying others who we hope have all the answers. When we see somebody that has what we think we want, it’s alluring to assume they found the one correct path and live a blissful life without any problems. This is what’s called “survivorship bias” in action: We only hear about the “super strategies” of the highly successful, and we don’t hear about all the people who followed those exact strategies and burned out or went into ruin chasing the same dreams.

Those people don’t usually get book deals or TV shows. Fortunately, there are plenty of celebrities and successful folks who are willing to give honest answers about their privilege, luck, and the severe trade-offs and sacrifices they’ve had to make. To paraphrase author Mark Manson, there’s no such thing as a life without problems, only a life with different problems. Comedian Bo Burnham was once asked on a late-night TV show how to succeed like him in life. His answer was honest: Don’t take advice from people like me who have gotten very lucky.

We’re very biased. You know, like Taylor Swift19 telling you to follow your dreams is like a lottery winner telling you, “Liquidize your assets. Buy Powerball tickets. It works.” I really appreciated this honest answer from Ken Burns, arguably the most accomplished documentarian alive. He’s known for his award-winning documentaries about the Civil War, country music, Vietnam, baseball, and more. I am in awe of his ability to distill thousands of hours of interviews and archival footage into the ten most definitive hours on that topic.

Wanting to know more of his secret, I listened to his interview on the SmartLess podcast.

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Copyright infringement is against the law. If you believe the copy of this e-book you are reading infringes on the author’s copyright, please notify the publisher at: us.macmillan .com/piracy. OceanofPDF.com INTRODUCTION Starting at the End I wonder why it is that when I plan a route too carefully it goes to pieces, whereas if I blunder along in blissful ignorance aimed in a fancied direction I get through with no trouble.

—John Steinbeck, Travels with Charley: In Search of America Most books start at the beginning. We’re going to start at the end. The morning after you failed. The day after you bailed on your diet. The week after you gave up on your 5K training. The month after you lost your job or your relationship fell apart. That moment when you’re sad and frustrated and wondering, “Where do I go from here?”

I’ll start with some uplifting news: You’re in good company. My name is Steve Kamb, and I have failed a lot lately. The only reason you’re reading this book is because of those failures. In 2023, I signed a contract to write a book about how I’ve helped millions of busy, burned-out people reach their goals while living beautifully unoptimized lives. I was excited to share my seventeen years of experience teaching how to make progress even when life doesn’t go according to plan.

And then my life didn’t go according to plan. Two weeks after signing this book deal, my dermatologist gave me the lovely news that the itchy patch on my scalp was basal cell carcinoma. “Don’t worry, that’s the good kind,” she said. A surgery and some stitches took care of it this time, but I assume this will be the first of many skin cancer diagnoses in my future. And then things really got “fun.” After a nine-year relationship, I got divorced.

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